I got mine

I believe each and every one of us familiar with this word "Life is a struggle".

We may born in wealthy rich family nor we may come from poor family, but life does not care about that, life judge your struggles to have it or maintain it.

Life awarded to whom willing to sacrifice their times and energy in every aspect of life. First step for act is always a challenge, we filled our head with those sweet dream but when about to synchronize its to reality.... hahaha LoL

Base on my experience, my father can place me in any job position as a government employee in Papua, however I chose to pursuit my own dream in Jakarta, starting as sales has teaches me a lot to mantain positive attitude. Worked in 6 different company before taught me so much about variety of skills. I graduated from unfamiliar college and work hard to show company that I have capabilities as qualified as others who's graduated from famous familiar college.

Put Jesus first in my every battle, faith faith faith that for each drop of my tears and sweat shall noy wasted.
Life answered me with new opportunity to joint in one of large and known company, something that i never hope will happen, and it did, mighty Jesus.

So, i believed for everything that we put God first, efforts, and willing to open for criticized also kept it as positive encouragement will droves us high even more than our dream in first place.

Dream dream dream dream
Beautiful dream
Highest effort
Never give up when reality its shown the opposite of it
When every person around you doesn't trust it
When challenge after challenge keep block you away, believe that phase after phase you will find your dream hide and wait for you to open.

Dedicated to whom that stand and struggle for their dream, life will not disappointed.

By Lia Nauw "Tambraw Forever"

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second chance

When you has done everything right, when you has completed all the tasks, when you has spare all the time for that one moment, when you has fight all the challenges, when you has put everything right where its need... and one special moment that you have been waiting for, working for, hoping for, praying for seems to fade away but you keeps put your faith in it... until times show you that it is not for you to have right now.... what are you going to tells your self about that, how you going to convince your self about that... because it's hurt you deep, it's broke you apart to the level that you hatea for makes your self believe it at first place.

Then there is another window open for you, but you did not move, you just staring and questioning... not because you don't like that but it simply because you stuck with that other window that let you down... not because that window is small it's simply because you just couldn't let go the other ones.

Times goes by... u enter the other new window with high hope that this is your time... this is your moment for sure... you work really hard to show your dedication, loyalty and finaly it wave your efforts... you start to enjoy the rhyme and makes your self deserves.
Suddenly... out of nowhere, the ghost that makes your life miserable is reach you to come back and bring more to offer... the scarf is wide open, you asking your self is this my second chance?? Should I embark this road again?? Should I let my self feel it again?? It's so tempting.

In all of your doubting, you tell your self... just try it... just do it.. no matter if it's hurt you again, no matter how much pain it's cause at least you over your chance.... at least you push your self to limits.... because it's all about the process and only process that matter. Result only a rewarding. Result only a gitf. Like a flowers only can blossom bright and beautiful if it's grow properly and supposedly.

Do not involving doubts and fears, when you face your opportunity cause it can only hold you back from becoming who you really are

Salam Lia Tambraw.

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Wedding is........???

Written by Lia 'Tambraw Forever'

Wikipedia, wedding is the ceremony in which two people are united in marriage.
Aristotle, Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.
Germaine Greer, A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.
Homer, There is nothing nobler or more admirable than when two people who see eye to eye keep house as man and wife, confounding their enemies and delighting their friends.
Roy Goodman, Remember that happiness is a way of travel, not a destination.
Martin Luther, There is no more lovely, friendly and charming relationship, communion or company than a good marriage.

i searching all the wedding is....???
not because i want to married or anything.
i just get inspired by the royal wedding event, that makes me think that, why is we have to get married other than just to get legalized.
i believe there is a perfect wedding for everyone.
i believe there is a perfect person for everyone.
i believe there is a perfect time for everyone.

we build a relationship, we looking for the "right one", during on and off, rise and fall, ups and downs, everything is just mixed up, messy all over, chaos of ego, and doubting. we are to busy to focus on all that, and forget that it's only life that we have to embark on. It's only life that we choose to.

my self too, has been in on and off relationship, don't know end of my single road, doubting my choice.... is he the one?? or this is the right one?? why that and why this?? it's frustrating. i am in my 28th and still not closer to my wedding...
that's why i am so happy to those who's already found their perfect one. And for me, still an open road, one day i will be there in my own white long beautiful gown with my prince.

Natalia Nauw, wedding is an ups and downs to find your soul mate that would married not only your best but your worse also, try and struggle to keep the love is breathing and growing higher over all the misfortunes.

William & Kate Royal wedding

written by Lia 'Tambraw Forever'




London April 29 2011, history has been made and witness by over 2 billions eyes across the world. who would though a prince finally found his princess. it's a modern fairytale, everyone wants to be a part of it, even just have to watch it on the side of the road.

Me my self, i watch it over E TV, starting from 03.00 pm (Indonesian's Time)until 07.00 pm ending with kiss on the balcony. What a moment, Kate is a very lucky woman not only because she married to the most eligible bachelor in the world with all the fortune but to have the perfect wedding, perfect cake, perfect and beautiful loving people around, and the PERFECT (beautiful, elegant, modern, magnificent,and top notch well designed )GOWN.

Oh my Gog, i could not believe my eyes when i saw the wedding gown, she look perfectly stunning. I believe that she has made all woman envy, including me. It is a every woman dream gown, and every woman have a dream to wear the beautiful white long dress in the most important day of their live, including me.

Hopefully, this wedding event would bring happiness and freedom will not just for woman who can "speak" and make their own choice but also to all the beautiful woman that still live in poorness, live in man dictatorialness, and live in their own life prison. Congratulations to Prince William and Princess Kate, i wish both of you an eternal love journey.

My Dearest Oyouw (German Shepperd mix Tackle)

A companion, a pal,
A very best friend.
Someone to trust,
To love 'til the end.
Someone to trust,
When feeling blue.

Always a smile,
T'always greet you.
Always a smile,
To dry up your tears.
A person to be there,
To quiet your fears.

A person to be there,
When lonely or sad.
Loving regardless,
If hating or mad.
Loving regardless,
If caring or cruel.



No matter what,
Genius or fool.
No matter what,
They stand by you.
Who is this person,
Have you a clue?

Who is this person?
I'll tell you who.
This is your pet,
That loves through 'n through.

Author Unknown

Mengenal Tulisan Tangan (Grafologi)

Setiap tulisan yang di buat oleh seseorang mencerminkan kepribadian orang tersebut.. Teknik ini di namakan Grafologi.
Grafologi adalah ilmu yang mempelajari karakter seseorang dengan cara menganalisa tulisan tangannya, buku pertama tentang grafologi ditulis oleh Camillo Baldi, seorang dokter asal Itali pada tahun 1622. Tahun 1872, Jean Michon menerbitkan bukunya yang menjadi buku pokok grafologi pada saat itu. Tak lama kemudian, universitas universitas di Eropa mulai memberi gelar Ph.D. atau Master di bidang ini.

Ada dua metode untuk menilai karakter dan kepribadian lewat ilmu ini, yaitu teknik Jerman dan teknik Perancis. Metode Jerman dengan cara melihat secara keseluruhan tulisan seseorang. Sedangkan pada teknik Perancis cenderung menganalisa per huruf lalu digabungkan. Seorang pemula biasanya mempelajari teknik Perancis terlebih dahulu.



Menurut riset, keakuratan analisa grafologi mencapai 80-90%.
Beberapa sifat yang bisa dilihat lewat tulisan seseorang:

1. Arah kemiringan huruf
Ke kanan = ekspresif, emosional
Tegak = menahan diri, emosi sedang
Ke kiri = menutup diri
Ke segala arah dalam 1 kalimat = tidak konsisten
Ke segala arah dalam 1 kata = ada masalah dengan kepribadiannya

2. Bentuk umum huruf-huruf
Bulat atau melingkar = alami, easygoing
Bersudut tajam = agresif, to the point, energi kuat
Bujursangkar = realistis, praktek berdasar pengalaman
Coretan tak beraturan = artistik, tidak punya standar

3. Huruf-huruf bersambung atau tidak
Bersambung seluruhnya = sosial, suka bicara dan bertemu dengan orang banyak
Sebagian bersambung sebagian lepas = pemalu, idealis yang agak sulit membina hubungan (terlebih hubungan spesial).
Lepas seluruhnya = berpikir sebelum bertindak, cerdas, seksama

4. Spasi antar kata
Berjarak tegas = suka berbicara (mungkin orang yang selalu sibuk?)
Rapat/Seolah tidak berjarak = tidak sabaran, percaya diri dan cepat bertindak

5. Jarak vertikal antar baris tulisan
Sangat jauh = terisolasi, menutup diri, bahkan mungkin anti sosial
Cukup berjarak sehingga huruf di baris atas tidak bersentuhan dengan baris di bawahnya = boros, suka bicara
Berjarak rapat sehingga ujung bawah huruf ‘y’, ‘g’, menyentuh ujung atas huruf ‘h’, ‘t’ = organisator yang baik

6. Interpretasi huruf ‘t’
Letak palang (-) pada kail ‘t’
- Cenderung ke kiri = pribadi waspada, tidak mudah percaya
- Tepat di tengah = pribadi yang kurang orisinil tapi sangat bertanggung jawab
- Cenderung ke kanan = pribadi handal, teliti, mampu memimpin

Panjang kail ‘t’ menunjukkan kemampuan potensial untuk mencapai target.
Tinggi-rendah palang (-) pada kail ‘t’
- Rendah = setting target lebih rendah dari kemampuan sebenarnya (kurang percaya diri atau pemalas)
- Tinggi = setting target tinggi tapi juga diimbangi oleh kemampuan
- Di atas kail = setting target lebih tinggi dibanding kemampuan

7. Arah tulisan pada kertas
Naik/menanjak = energik, optimis, tegas
Tetap/lurus = perfeksionis, sulit bergaul
Turun = seorang yang tertekan atau lelah, kemungkinan menutup diri

8. Tekanan saat menulis
Makin kuat tekanan, makin besar intensitas emosional penulisnya

9. Ukuran huruf
Makin kecil huruf yang ditulis, maka makin besar tingkat konsenterasi si penulis, begitu pula sebaliknya.

10. Sedikit tentang huruf “O”
- Adanya rahasia ditunjukkan oleh lingkaran kecil pada huruf “O”
- Kebohongan ditunjukkan oleh lingkaran huruf “O” yang mengarah ke kanan.